A Look at Relationship Mediation – For When You Just Can’t Work it Out

The Relationship Rescue blog is about doing your best to stay together forever but sometimes, that’s just not realistic and not meant to be. When we’re in love it feels like nothing will tear us apart but things can change either for one or for both people in a relationship and sometimes that relationship is no longer viable.
If counselling didn’t help (or one of you refused it) and time apart didn’t bring you closer together and one or both of you have now come to the conclusion that there is nothing left to do but part ways, this can be a tough process. It’s especially tough if there are serious problems communicating with one another and issues have got to be addressed. If there are assets, financial obligations, and/or children involved, things need to be dealt with and you may benefit from getting help addressing and resolving these issues. If you’re in FL, NJ, DE, our PA divorce mediation services are available to help with your divorce issues, including:

• Divorce mediation
• Child Support
• Financial responsibilities
• Co-Parenting mediation
• And other issues.

Sometimes the communications are too painful for one or both of you. Sometimes the yelling and screaming means that nothing really gets resolved. Sometimes a mediator can help bring quick resolution when talking is too difficult or just not possible.
Relationship or Divorce Mediation Services
There are several styles of divorce mediation services that can help you and your former partner communicate so that issues can get resolved. Those issues could relate to: division of property and finances, responsibility of debts, custody of children, even the custody of joint ownership pets. Breaking up can be ugly and mediation services can make the process easier. It may require a session or two or may be a service you utilize as needed, especially if you and your former mate share an ongoing bond due to children and need help coming to agreements on an ongoing basis.
A mediator isn’t there to determine who’s at fault in a dispute. But a skilled relationship mediator has the negotiation skills to cut through the anger and the frustration and help you both come to an agreement that allows everyone to move forward. There may be things that you and your former partner are at a stalemate on and a professional mediator can help you resolve those issues, saving both of you frustration and helping you to begin to heal from the pain of your breakup.
For more info and helpful resources, visit: PA Divorce Mediators.
(photo: http://www.sxc.hu/browse.phtml?f=view&id=975584)